Let’s be clear: I write because I love the written word. I blog because I believe the Web has the potential of democratizing society in as powerful a way as the Gutenberg press helped democratize the society of its day. I’d like to be a part of the process.
I participate in social networks because people fascinate me, and because I believe it’s a good idea to be exposed to a broad spectrum of thought.
I’m not young enough to still believe love will conquer all, but I support those who do, partly because youth is supposed to believe love is invincible and partly because I am not so old I have lost hope it might.
I am not at all intimate with many of the people in my social network, and I don’t really care to be — not because I don’t appreciate you, but because my real life and my flesh-and-blood network is a full-time responsibility.
Love isn’t about cuddly dust bunnies, it’s about concrete. Although an “I love you” might give you warm fuzzy thoughts, blow up your skirt, make you feel studly, or crank your tractor, it means absolutely nothing if it’s only words.
As I said, I don’t really know all of you. I’m not even sure I like some of you. Don’t take it personally. At heart, I’m something of a misanthrope. Or I like to play one on TV.
But if you turn up on my doorstep hungry, tired, and despondent, I’ll feed you, find you a bed for a night or two, listen to your tale of woe, and try to get you help that will last longer than the few days of rest I can provide.
For me, that’s love. All the rest is smoke and mirrors. So yes, I love you. Every mother’s son and daughter of you.
Now let’s get back to the real Narcissistic business of social media.